Lost, Evil, & Grumpy: Part 4

Lost Young Man: “J”

The best for last. Let’s go back to the investigation: I communicated with a young male who appeared to me during my walk through of the warehouse at Mrs. V’s office. He was in his twenties, he kept saying the number 8, and he told me his name was “J”, or Jay or Jason. He had sandy brown hair, he was wearing leather riding gear (motorcycle). He road a red street motorcycle and he died from a crash on that motorcycle. He roams around the entire area, but likes the girls in Mrs. V’s office. He only messes with the guy in the warehouse because he is the only guy. “J” kept saying to me something about my son. At the time I wasn’t sure if he had known one of my sons or not. Also, he showed me that he used to hang out with his friends at some kind of warehouse or mechanical shop. They would talk about motorcycles and cars. He kept saying, “Your son” to me.

I left the ladies at Mrs. V’s office with the information that I got from “J”, and they were going to do research on who he could possibly be.

That night I had a dream that I was standing out front of Mrs. V’s office building and “J” was there. He made me follow him to the office building to the right of Mrs. V’s office. When we got up to the building, which was all black windows, he told me to look inside. I put my hands up to the glass then my face up to my hands so I could look inside. I could not see a thing. When I looked back to tell “J” that I couldn’t see through the black window, he was gone. I instantly woke up.

I remembered what that building was because I felt like I had to drive around Mrs. V’s office building before I investigated it. The building next door was a gymnastics gym/school. For some reason “J” wanted me to know it was there, and check it out.

This is the part of every investigation that is always shocking to me. It’s when what I felt, heard, and saw is validated. Makes me cry every time. I am still in awe that I have this gift.

Mrs. V and the ladies in her office did all the research with what information I had given them. This is what they found:

A twenty four year old male named Jason (they got his last name, but I won’t print that), who lived in San Juan Capistrano, was killed on his red Honda motorcycle in September 2008. He was killed on his way to work in Santa Ana. He had a little girl that was almost 2 years old, and a fiancé. His mother and step-father live in San Clemente. He loved motorcycles, he was a welder, and he played guitar. He loved going to the desert and riding off road.

As Mrs. V is giving me all of this information and I am writing it down, I realize that I had a premonition about this exact moment. In my personal life at that moment, my husband and I were battling my son about getting a street motorcycle. My premonition was of me sitting exactly where I was sitting and writing and realizing that Jason was giving me a message. He was a lot like my son. They had the same interests. I then realized that Jason was trying to warn me about the street motorcycle. I also felt that he was at Mrs. V’s office for another reason, and I needed to figure out what it was.

I decided to read all the information that Mrs. V sent me regarding Jason’s life and death. Jason reminded me so much of my son, and there were a lot of personal details that helped me get to know Jason. Those details would help me when I went back to cleanse Mrs. V’s office.

I did mention the dream I had to Mrs. V of Jason leading me to the building next door. We both thought maybe his daughter who would now be 11, might have taken or takes gymnastics lessons there. We knew her name, but her mom may have changed her last name, so Mrs. V was going to look into it.

When I went to cleanse the office, I told Mrs. V that I was going to ask Jason to come home with me. I don’t usually do that, but I really felt he had unfinished business. I also felt like he was there to help me too. Sometimes it takes time to put the pieces together, but I really wanted to help him. Hopefully he would continue to show me signs and keep giving me pieces of the puzzle.

Jason was easy to cleanse, but I still had the gut feeling that the reason he would hang around Mrs. V’s office was because it was close to the gymnastics school. Mrs. V did go over to the gymnastics school and check to see if Jason’s daughter was a student there. The young man that worked there said they could not give her that information, so Mrs. V then explained the situation to him. She told him she knew it sounded crazy, but we were trying to solve a mystery. This got the young man intrigued. He then said that the name Mrs. V gave was not in the system, but the first name was. So possibly Jason’s fiancé changed the little girls last name. The young man could not give us the last name of the girl with the same first name. We expected that. Confidentiality.

After the cleansing, I felt Jason’s spirit come home with me. And I allowed him to come into my home. BUT… I forgot to tell my family that I brought him home. Both of my sons are sensitives, not as clear as me, but one of them could be better than me if he opened himself up to it. They don’t want anything to do with their gifts.

A couple of days after the cleansing, my younger son came into our kitchen and told me that I needed to cleanse the house again. So I asked him why? (I played dumb) I wanted to know what he heard and saw, and because he is sensitive and does not like to talk about it, its my way of proving to him that he has a gift. He then told me that he came down in the middle of the night for a glass of water and as he was filling his glass at the sink, he looked out the kitchen window and there was a young guy standing there. It scared the crap out of him. He then turned around to go back upstairs and he could feel someone following him up the stairs. My son then went into his room and closed his door. He said he could hear someone open and closing doors and walking around in the hallway. Then it just stopped.

I told my son that the young man he saw was Jason, and I brought him home with me after a cleansing. First my son asked if I had completely lost my mind, and then he said I should of warned him. He was right, but I never thought he would see Jason. I told my son all about Jason and that he died on a street motorcycle. I also told him that Jason had a lot in common with him, and being the momma bear that I am, I want to do what I can to help him. My son asked me to tell Jason to not scare the crap out of him again. I told him to tell Jason himself. He just rolled his eyes at me and shook his head. A mom can try.

Over a year has passed, and I don’t feel Jason around. I am hoping that someone recognizes the information in this story and either passes it on or knows something so I can have this story come full circle. My son still does not have a motorcycle, but it is still a sensitive subject. Now that he has moved out, it is his choice. The day he does get one, I can kiss sleep and my nerves good bye! I will be worried every time he gets on it.


Lost, Evil, and Grumpy: Part 3

Dark Evil Man:

One of the reasons I have waited to write the follow up to this investigation, is that my client told me I forgot a few things that happened during the investigation. So that is why I got all her notes before I wrote this post. I wanted to add the few details that I forgot and she thought was important.

When I investigated originally, I left out that the dark evil man kept poking me in the head, and he kept making me feel like I was being stabbed in my side. His hatred for me being there was so strong that I knew then that cleansing him out was going to be a fight.

When I came back for the cleansing, I decided to take an aggressive approach to clearing out the dark evil man. I was there to boss him around and I didn’t care if he wanted to talk or not. He had to go! I started on the second floor where I felt him the first time. I told him he had to leave and that he wasn’t welcome there. I could feel him and sense that he was not happy I was back. He called me some choice words, but I kept at him and chased him down the hall to the stairway. He fought me and I just kept at it, making it clear over and over that he had to leave. Again he tried to hide from me by going through the wall to the deep walk in closet next door. So I had to go next store to cleanse him out of the closet. He went through the wall again into the hallway behind. So back to the hallway I went. He disappeared and I knew he was hiding.

I was then drawn to the double doors in the hallway that led to the offices. I could feel instantly that the dark evil man was attached to the person who sat at the desk right in front of the double doors. I cleansed that whole are thoroughly and I kept repeating myself that he wasn’t welcome there. Then the weirdest thing happened, I went back to the hallway to push the dark evil man out the door to the outside, and I looked towards the stairs real quick, and there was a large black cricket on the stairs. I asked Mrs. V if she had seen black crickets in her office before, and she said she had not.

I went back to cleansing the dark evil man out the door, then closed the door to the outside. I had pushed him out. I went back into the office and in the middle of the office was another large black cricket. I had never seen a black cricket before and it freaked Mrs. V and I out.

I told Mrs. V that it was going to be a struggle to keep the dark evil man out. I really had a feeling he was hiding and waiting to get back in. She would have to cleanse every few weeks. I also felt he was attached to the young female who sat in the desk near the double doors. (I really cleansed around her desk) It would be up to Mrs. V if she wanted to tell this young woman or just see how my cleansing worked first. I had a gut feeling that the dark evil man was going to give me trouble after this.

I cleansed myself after I left there, but I could still feel his presence lurking. I know he came to my work right after I did the cleansing, because I started to feel depressed and I had a heavy feeling around me. I just wanted to go home where he couldn’t get in my house and I could regroup.

The next day when I came to work I was shocked by what I saw. Still can’t believe it. I stood there in total disbelief and tried to figure out how it happened. I will try to describe what I saw the best I can.

On the wall behind my small desk, I had a large metal dear head with metal antlers. Under the head I had a shelf with bottles on it and a picture frame. But today when I got to work I found the metal dear head was off the wall and its antler was stabbed into the top of my computer. Nothing on the shelf was disturbed. There is no way that dear head could of fell off the wall without taking out everything on the shelf.  It looked like someone took the dear head off the wall and forcefully stabbed my computer with it. (NOTE: I own my own business and I am the only one with a key, and I had a huge metal bike lock on my door, which was intact when I got there)

I know you are probably thinking that this is too crazy to be true. So I had my hubby come to my work to look at it and have him try to come up with an explanation. He could not come up with how the head came off the wall and did not knock anything off of the shelf below it or how the antler was stabbed with such force. We did figure out that my computer was a goner. The dent on top of the computer was so bad that it shattered the screen inside. I took pictures of what happened, and maybe I will share them someday when I share who I am, but until then you just have to trust me. My hubby tells this story to people when the subject comes up about me being a medium or what it is like being married to a medium.

I knew the dark evil man did this. He made his point. So I texted Mrs. V to see how things were going there and to tell her what happened to me. She said a few things had happened that were unexplainable, so I told her to cleanse again. Then if that didn’t work, I would come back and bring a male sensitive who I knew that was tough and more intimidating than me. We would cleanse the dark evil man out hopefully for good.

Time went by and things seemed to calm down at Mrs. V’s office. Then one night I was watching a paranormal show called, “The Ghosts of Shepherdstown”. In this particular episode, the paranormal team with the help of a medium, and a priest, were going to cleanse an evil entity or demon from a Tea House, which was located inside of an old home. They were all standing around a circle that was drawn on the floor and they were holding hands. The priest was chanting and yelling for this entity to get out. Next thing that happened freaked me out, all of a sudden there were black crickets all over the room. BLACK CRICKETS!!!!!! Exactly what I saw while cleansing the dark evil man from Mrs. V’s office building.

The next day I texted Mrs. V. I did not want to freak her out, so I asked how things were going. She said things had been calm and the vibe changed in the office, especially since her employee that I thought the dark evil man was attached to, wasn’t working there anymore. So I decided to tell her what I had seen on that paranormal show. She couldn’t believe it. Definitely another lessen for me.

So dark evil man was gone. I talk to Mrs. V quite a bit. We have become close friends. After I write Part 4 about the lost young man, I will write about my most recent investigation at Mrs. V’s office building. It is an active location. I have my theory as to why her office building is so active, but I will reveal that in the post about my latest investigation.



Lost, Evil, and Grumpy: Part 2

Hello again. I know its taken me awhile to write Part 2, but I hope it is worth the wait for you.

This time I requested all the information about this investigation from my clients. This was a complex investigation and still is. I usually write my blogs based on my notes, but this time I got the notes that were taken by the client during the investigation and after, and during the cleansing and after. Also, I did another investigation at this location last night. It’s a busy building. That is when I decided to break this post into pieces. First piece is the Grumpy guy in the wine storage facility.

I picked the easiest spirit first. When I went back to cleanse the building, the Grumpy old man was easy to get rid of. He was bored there anyways. We did not find out or try to figure out who he was. He was the least of our worries. The other two spirits where going to be a challenge.

What I mean by a challenge is, in regards to the lost young man, I really needed more answers from him and what he wanted from me. He came to me in a dream after I left there and I had to look for answers to what he was trying to show me.

Then the challenge with the dark evil man is that he wasn’t going to be easy to get rid of and I needed to try and push more for answers from him. I knew he was attached to someone at this building, but who and why.??? Also, telling someone that there is a dark evil presence attached to them, is not on my list of favorite things. Then telling my client that their employee has bad juju around her. Not the finer parts of being able to see and talk to dead people…….but the good out weighs the bad.

As soon as I post this, I am starting Part 3, so no long wait this time.

Lost, Evil, and Grumpy: Part 1

About one year ago, I did the investigation that got me started on this journey of telling my stories on this blog. I was asked to do an investigation at an office building. There were three businesses in the building, and all three were owned by the same person. It was her business partner with one of the businesses that asked me to do the investigation. The employees were a little freaked out about unexplained occurrences that were happening all over the building. The owner, who I will call, Mrs. X, is a skeptic. Her partner, who I will call Mrs. V, believes in the paranormal, and thinks the building is definitely haunted. So, to ease the minds of the employees, Mrs. X was ok with Mrs. V calling in an investigative medium.

Mrs. V and I talked several times before we set a day and time for me to investigate. I asked that her employees were present at first, so they could tell me about their experiences, then I preferred them to leave, except Mrs. V so that I could focus on reading the building. I needed her to take notes as I shared exactly what I was seeing, hearing, feeling, and smelling. When I open myself up to read a location, I can’t have a lot of people around, it is distracting, as I can pick up their feelings or their loved ones who have passed away.

We picked an afternoon in July, 2017. If you have read all of my of posts, then you know that I think it is ridiculous to do investigations in the dark, while running into walls and being half scared out of your mind. The dead don’t care what time of day it is … when they have a message, they have a message! I see them in the light and in the dark as clear as if I were standing in front of you talking.

Before I go to a location, I work on clearing my mind and doing activities that are relaxing to me. Gardening in my backyard is what I prefer to do, but if I am at work before I go to an investigation, I will close my doors and sit in silence. On my way to the location, I get very nervous. I always second guess myself and I always make a promise to myself that if I hear or feel nothing, I will tell the client exactly that. I never want to be known as a fraud. It would crush me.

Lost … (Spirit #1)

When I got to the building, which is in Laguna Niguel, I am already getting chills and tingles on the right side of my head. I feel the need to drive around the building once before I park … not sure why at that point. When I park, I don’t park out front, I park on the side of the building by the warehouse and walk around to the front. I am drawn to the warehouse right away.

Inside I am greeted by Mrs. V, and her staff. They are all sitting at a long table in the middle of the room. The group is all female except for one male who runs the warehouse. They all work for one of the three companies that occupy this building. The company creates and sells health and beauty products. I am about to ask each person to tell their experiences, when Mrs. X walks in. I automatically can sense her skepticism. Not only do I feel it, I see it … a clear block wall along with her body language, arms crossed and shoulders high … says to me … I don’t believe in this crap. So right then, I shut her out. I am there to help, so I have to ignore the negative vibe she is radiating.

One at a time, each employee tells me what they have experienced: The heavy door to the warehouse opens and closes by itself. Doors lock on their own. Chairs moving. Heavy footsteps on the second floor. Feelings of being watched. Headaches. Upset stomachs. Anxiety on the second floor. When they are done, I tell them that I need to walk through the warehouse first by myself. I am being drawn there. I always do an initial walk through of a location by myself before I say anything, just to see what I feel.

As I entered the warehouse, I see a young man right away. He has a lot to say. I have to go back to where everyone is sitting to have them write down what this young man is telling me. He is excited and is telling me who he is before I can get to Mrs. V to take notes. I tell her to grab her notebook and pen, there is a spirit with me and he is talking fast. Then I say everything I hear, see, and feel:

The spirit is a young male in his early 20’s. He keeps saying the number 8. He is average height, brown hair, and thin. He says his name is either Jay or Jason … all I hear is the Ja sound. Then he shows me a red motorcycle. He was killed in an accident while riding this motorcycle. Then he said the weirdest thing to me. He said, “your son, your son.”  I thought he was saying that he knew one of my sons. That made my stomach drop. Then he showed me himself hanging out with friends in a warehouse or garage, talking about bikes and cars. He was welding and smoking a cigarette. Then again he says to me, “your son, your son.”

I asked him why he was there. He seemed confused, but says he was drawn there because of all the women. He only messes with the guy in the warehouse because he is new and he prefers all the ladies. He is not trying to scare anyone, he just likes it there. So then I asked him about the heavy footsteps and if he is causing the headaches and stomach aches. He said no, that there is a bad man upstairs. That is when Ja disappeared.

I did not get to finish asking him questions, so Mrs. V said they would do research to see if there were any motorcycle deaths in the area and use all the info I gave them to figure out the mystery. I told them to remember that Ja kept saying the number 8, it could mean something. And I was going to figure out why he kept saying, “your son.”

Evil … (Spirit #2)

I had to move on. I still needed to investigate the rest of this building. I really did not want to go upstairs. I already had my crystal in my pocket, but for some reason, I felt I needed to grab my rosary. I asked Mrs. V to come with me so I had access to every office. As I approached the bottom of the stairs, I had an uneasy feeling in my stomach. Then I started to feel anxious. My legs felt like they had cement boots on them as I slowly walked up the stairs. When I got to the top, I was hit by a heavy uncomfortable energy. This space was not good. Then I felt the presence of what looked like a man. He was large and surrounded by black. He would not let me see his face, but he was mad. He told me to get the “F” out of there. His voice was deep and sent a cold chill through my body. He was pure evil.

I then said to Mrs. V, there is no way anyone could work up here. The energy is horrific. She then told me that there was only one person working up there. I then asked if she had headaches and stomach problems all the time? Also, mood swings and feeling drained of energy? Mrs. V said she knew for sure she had headaches all the time, she would ask about the rest. (Mrs. V did ask and the young woman that had an office on the second floor, shared she was experiencing stomach problems, headaches, mood swings, and she always felt really drained by the end of the day.)

This evil presence was getting really agitated. He wanted to get away from me. He did not like that I could see him or tell the ladies what he was up to. I followed him down a hallway which led to a door to stairs that went down to an exit. As I got halfway down the stairs, he disappeared into the wall which ended up being the rest of the building that I had not investigated yet.

Grumpy … (Spirit #3)

Mrs. V then led me to the offices in the second half of the building, which was a wine storage facility. The entry or lobby of this side was beautiful. I first went into the two big rooms which looked like meeting rooms. Then Mrs. V took me back into the huge wine storage area. The maintenance guy and a female employee had a few experiences they could not explain in the storage area. I could not believe the rows and rows of wine. I was drawn to the back of the building and stopped at a door. Mrs. V unlocked it and when I went inside, my lungs started to hurt and then I smelt cigarettes. Then I could see this little old man. He was kind of hunched over and he had a really wrinkled elf looking face.  He had on khaki pants, a button-down shirt, and a button-up sweater. And he was not friendly. Super grumpy. Mumbling under his breath. He told me to get the “F” out, this was his place.

I did not get a bad feeling from him. Nothing evil, just a grumpy old man. He said he wasn’t going to “f’ing” talk to me …”Go Away!” As I was leaving, he started to laugh. I could see his teeth … lets just say “YUCK.” Then he showed me what he has doing to people there. He shows me that he tripped a woman carrying a box of wine. Then he shows me that he plays hide and seek with the man that works there by hiding in between the isles of wine and standing at the end of whatever isle this man was working in … just to mess with him. This man would have for sure caught a glimpse of old grumpy pants.

When we leave the wine storage area, Mrs. V takes me to the maintenance guys office. I tell him what I just saw and it is exactly what he has been experiencing. (The only difference he witnessed was that the old man had a fishing hat on). One of the female employees had told him that she was carrying a box of wine and it felt like she tripped over something. She said it seemed as if someone stuck their leg out to trip her, but she was the only one in there. I love when I get instant validation.

We are now standing back in the lobby and I am drawn to a closed door. I ask Mrs. V what is behind the door. She says it is a storage closet. I realize that it is what is on the other side under the stairs where the evil presence went through the wall. So of course I have to go in. It is a large closet with a cubby hole that you can crawl into and store more stuff. I go in as far as I can and it is a very heavy energy in there. That is where the evil presence hangs out, but why? So I have Mrs. V take me back to the hallway with the stairs that is on the other side of the storage closets wall.

As I walk toward the stairs, the wall the evil presence went through is to my right and there are two large doors to my left. I can feel that whatever is on the other side of those doors, this presence is drawn to.  Mrs. V opens the doors and there is a desk there, a little round conference table, and then Mrs. V’s office. I couldn’t put my finger on it, but I know that this presence has something to do with whoever sits at the desk next to the double doors. Until I know for sure, I don’t say anything to Mrs. V.

At the end of my investigation, I definitely concluded that this building has some stuff going on. I told Mrs. V to take the info I gave her and do some research and to let me know what she finds. Then after knowing more of what we are dealing with, I will come back and cleanse. I already know that I am going to have to deal with each spirit separately and differently.

Part 2 of this investigation is about what Mrs. V finds after doing research. What happens to me after this investigation, and what happens after I cleanse the heck out of this building. To this day, there are a few unanswered questions, but the ones that are validated are unbelievable.

The Fire Station

About six years ago, I was asked if I wanted to observe a female paranormal team do an investigation. They knew I was a sensitive and that I was curious about how a team goes about an investigation. They were asked to investigate a fire station in Los Angeles County, which was located next to an old cemetery. I absolutely wanted to go and observe these ladies in action.

A few days before the investigation, I went over to the woman’s home that was in charge of the group. She wanted to get me familiar with the equipment that they were going to use during the investigation and teach me how to use it. Also, she wanted to show me evidence of their past investigations. It was all very interesting and I appreciated her taking the time to show me what happens behind the scenes before they approach an investigation.

The day of the investigation, I was nervous. Plus, I was dealing with a spirit that had been really weighing on me. I was going on days with no sleep and was anxious. REMEMBER, this was six years ago and I was still learning how to set boundaries with spirits. I was hoping the investigation was going to be a fun distraction.

When we got to the fire station, the ladies started interviewing all of the firemen and their Fire Chief. Then they started setting up their equipment all over the station, which was small. The plan was to start with the areas with the least activity, then move their way to the more active areas, then end up in the old cemetery next door. That is where the firemen thought the activity was coming from.

The activity was mainly in the room that they all slept in. Right next to that room, on the other side of the wall, was the cemetery. They said that they heard a little girl either crying or laughing. They had felt their beds shake while trying to sleep. They heard knocking throughout the room. Also, they said that things would get moved. They would set something somewhere and when they came back, it would be oved. Also, they sometimes thought they saw something real quick in the mirror in the bathroom.

As I walked through the fire station, I felt nothing out of the ordinary, but also I was taking in every detail and every thing these ladies were doing. They asked the firemen to all stay in the sitting/kitchen area during their investigation. Only one fireman wanted to be apart of the investigation, so he and I observed the ladies doing their thing. He and I just stood out of the way and kept quiet. This was all kind of boring and long, until we got to the room that the firemen slept in.

The ladies then asked us to sit on the far side of the room so they could do their investigation. They were getting some good hits on their EMF detector, and after asking a lot of questions, they thought they were talking to a little girl. They proceeded to get down on their knees to be at the little girls level, so she wouldn’t feel frightened. That is when I got full body static electricity chills. They were so strong, it took my breath away. I could feel the most intense energy circling around me. Then, I could feel a male presence standing next to me. He seemed to be amused by what the ladies were doing, and he was giggling. I could see him perfectly. He was tall, he had light hair, and he looked like he was either late 30’s or early 40’s.

He then said to me, “Who do they think they are talking too?” I told him I had no idea, because I didn’t see a thing. Then we both laughed and that got the ladies attention … I forgot to use my inside voice and laughed out loud. They were not happy, so I explained to them that I was feeling a male spirit around me. They thought I was making it up, like I was crazy … as they were on their knees communicating with air. Then the male spirit said something to me … I hear, “Go outside and look.” So I tell the ladies that I need some fresh air and I excused myself from the investigation.

Once I was outside, I could still feel him with me, but he was frustrated. I didn’t understand what he was trying to tell me, so I walked around outside and sat out there for awhile, until the ladies were done with their investigation. I went back in and helped them gather up all their equipment. The woman in charge was being so rude to me. As we were putting all the equipment in their bags and talking to the firemen, I could feel the male presence with me again, and this time he said, “Turn around and look inside.”

I froze, then I slowly turned around, and behind me on the wall (which I did not even notice before), was a glass case filled with pictures of fallen fire fighters. And right in the middle was the man I had been feeling and talking to. I blurted out loud, “Who is this?” Everyone went quiet. Then the Fire Chief said, “That is KH, he was my best friend, but he wasn’t ever assigned to this station. His death was all over the news, he died during one of the largest fires in LA. He got trapped with another fire fighter, between the fire truck and the fire. His death was tragic.” I then explained to him that his spirit was with me, and he wanted his friend to give his family a message. The message was that he was good and that he was sorry he didn’t get to say goodbye. He loves his family and he is always with them. I then noticed that all the firemen had tears in their eyes. I could feel their fear that what happened to KH could happen to them. And they were genuinely sad by the loss of one of their own, regardless if they knew him or not. They were one big family.

When I got home, I looked up the story of KH, and I cried. I felt like I knew him and I felt so horrible for his family. I hope they got the message from the Fire Chief, and got a little comfort from KH’s message for them.

I did not go on another investigation with the ladies. They spend every chance they can get doing investigations. Some have picked their search for ghosts over their families, and were still waiting to have that big paranormal moment happen for them. It really bothered them that I could go into an investigation and communicate without all the gadgets. The ugly monster called “jealousy” reared its head and I don’t play with mean girls!

Be kind, don’t judge, listen to one another, have patience, and just be nice … It’s good juju. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving!!!



The Ghost in the Hallway: Part 2

Set down my bag. Get my head together! Be tough! No-nonsense! Help this family! Those are the words that are going through my head as I am walking to the dining room. Before I start telling them about any information that I have researched, I ask “A” if she has been having lower back problems. Her eyes went wide and she said, “Yes.” I explained to her that my lower back has been killing me since I talked to her on the phone and the moment I got in the house, it stopped. “A” then explained that she had been having a lot of  female issues and she was scheduled for an ultrasound that week. She couldn’t believe that I felt her pain. I said that’s the bummer part of being empathic. You take the good with the bad. (I was going to suggest to her to see a doctor, if she hadn’t already.)

I then focused on my surroundings because something was off. I could smell alcohol, the kind you drink, but it was residual. That means that no one was drinking right then, but I could sense someone drank heavily. “J” was in the kitchen pacing around like a nervous wreck. I asked him if he was Ok, and he said he was just grateful that I was there, because he couldn’t live like this anymore. I asked him to please calm down, he was stirring up the energy in the home more than it already was. I have to say … his energy sucked!! It was distracting. I could sense that he was a sensitive, and I was going to have to tell him, but I needed him to quit freaking out.

To get away from him for a bit, I did a walk through of the home. The energy was a disaster. Calm in places and manic in others. The hallway was the worst. I was going to have to perform a miracle to get this home calm enough for them to live in it. The big problem was “J,” not Dickie pacing in the hallway. I had to get to the bottom of this.

I went back out to the dining area and “J” wasn’t there. “A” pointed to the other room, so I went in there and the negative energy hit me in the gut. “J” is on the couch rocking back and forth, crying. He is mumbling under his breath and holding his head. I had to get tough. “What the hell are you doing ‘J’?” He snaps out of it and just looks at me. I then tell him to get up and follow me back to the dining room so we can talk. He stands up, but doesn’t follow me, he goes through another door way into the kitchen, then into the dining room.

I looked at “A” and said, “You asked me to come here, do you want help or not?” She said “Yes,” and then I looked at “J” and I said, “I am here to help you. I am here to help your family. If you don’t let me help you, things are going to get worse around here.” I then asked him to come sit so we could talk, and he wanted to stand. I was about to lose it! I then looked at “A” and she was so upset. If anything, I was going to help her. So, “the no-nonsense medium” had to take charge.

Ok “J,” will you answer some questions?” He said “Yes.” Why are you so upset? He then starts balling and hiccupping, trying to get a word out. So I decided I better do the talking and he can nod Yes or No. First question: Do you know that you are a sensitive? He cries some more and says that he wasn’t sure, but he always has been able to sense things. I told him he was and needed to get a grip on it because his energy was out of control.

Second Question: Do you drink? And as I ask him this, I look at “A” for her reaction, because I am already deducting that he is a liar too. She won’t look at me, and he says not really. Which was total BS!! The smell of alcohol was coming out of his pores.

Third Question: Can you describe the man you saw out front? He said Yes and then describes him to me. He is finally calming down a little, but then I pulled out a picture of Dickie, and “J” freaks out. I asked him if this was the man he saw and he said it was. “J” keeps backing up and looking at the picture in pure horror. I explain who Dickie is. I tell them all the information I gathered. Also, I make it clear that Dickie means no harm, he is just lost. Somehow after Ellie came to the door, he is stuck here looking for her.

Dickie was stuck there because this home is the last place that he could remember before he got so sick. He went to where he had his best memories, but his energy is manic because he cannot find Ellie. He paces back and forth in the hallway constantly. I then explain to them both that I can cleanse him out and hopefully guide him to where his wife is in Ladera Ranch, BUT, I can only do this if they follow my instructions on what to do after I leave.

Now “J” has calmed down. I told him that he really needed to get a grip on how sensitive he is. Not only spiritually, but mentally. Then I had to give him the bad news … “J”, if you don’t get a grip, you are going to have problems no matter where you live. You will create a poltergeist in this home, because your energy is not controlled. You think you have problems now??? It will get a thousand times worse and I won’t be able to help you. SO, DO WHAT I SAY!!

First, I showed them how to cleanse their home. And they needed to do it weekly until they moved out (which I found out they were buying a home and moving soon). Then I told them that for approximately one hour a day, they needed to light an unscented white candle. It would help cleanse and create a positive space. (I use the tall glass Mexican candles.)

During the cleansing, we heard something hit the ground by the front door. We went to look and a flag that they had nailed high on the wall was on the ground. It looked like someone ripped it off the wall. I was used to things like that happening, but they were not. I told them it was just Dickie throwing a little fit because we were kicking him out of his home. But, I would have a talk with him when I was done. Hopefully he would go easily to his wife in Ladera, or I was going to have to take him there. The only real way to know is if “A” and “J” did not have any more incidents in the home after I left.

Next, the three of us went out back (the house was still a little smoky from the sage). I told them what else I needed them to do. First, they needed to get the house blessed and then “J” should get blessed. I also suggested that “J” should see a therapist because he was so over emotional and did not know how to stay focused (also I was hoping that a doctor would figure out that he has a drinking problem). I also said he needs to learn how to meditate. Meditation can be many things. Exercise, reading, gardening, going to the beach, or the regular old quiet time sitting and focusing on what calms you.

I walked back through the home alone to see how the energy was, and it was calm. Even “J’s” energy was completely different and he kept thanking me for helping him. I told him I did nothing but tell him what he needs to do to help himself. He is the only one that can take charge of himself. I told him to call me anytime he needed to talk or needed advice. He started crying again, then said, “I thought I was going crazy, I am so relieved that someone actually believes me.”

After I left, I had a long talk with Dickie, and sent him to his wife’s in Ladera Ranch. On my way home, I met my hubby for a glass of wine. I was mentally and physically exhausted. I usually get such a euphoric feeling after doing an investigation/reading, but this time was different. There were things still bothering me about “J” and I hoped that “A” could deal with his ups and downs.

I did check up on “A” and “J” for a few weeks after. “A” was still really concerned about “J’s” behavior. I am not a psychiatrist, I talk to dead people and try to help the living understand why they are there. I give clients information and knowledge. What they do with it is up to them.

My friend that referred “A” and “J” to me, keeps me updated on how they are doing. They did move, and they got married this year. So, I hope all is well and their lives are peaceful.

The Ghost in the Hallway: Part 1

This investigation took me awhile to get over. From start to finish, it really took a toll on me physically and emotionally. I learned that being empathic is helpful, but not always good for my health. It started with a phone call from the client.

November 2016. A young woman named “A” called me for help. She and her fiancé were renting a house, and there were strange things going on in the home. Also, she told me that her fiancé’s son lived there on and off. “A” said it all started the year before, after an old woman showed up at the door and said she used to live there. “A” did not let the woman in, but talked to her in the front yard. The old woman said her name was “Ellie,” and she and her husband used to live there, but her husband had passed away a few years ago. Then “Ellie” pointed to the flower beds and said she used to plant beautiful flowers in that planter. The phone was ringing in the house, so “A” ran back in to get it, and when she returned, “Ellie” was gone. “A” looked up and down the street and the lady had just vanished.

Since “A’s” encounter with “Ellie”, strange things had been happening in the house. “A” and her fiancé, “J”, had been having weird dreams and high anxiety. “A” would wake up every day at 3:14 am, no matter where she was. They were having severe mood swings, and the energy in the house felt different. One afternoon “A” heard “J” screaming from the garage, and when she ran out there he was standing looking out of the garage pointing at his son who was walking up the driveway. She asked why he was screaming and “J” said he saw a man standing behind his son looking at him. So, “A” walked out front and looked around and saw nothing.

The activity got so intense for them that they would sleep at “A’s” parent’s house most of the time. They really needed my help. They needed to move back home and not be afraid. As “A” is telling me what is going on, my lower back is starting to ache. Not just ache, but uncomfortable cramping. Then my vision starts to blur, and I start to get a gnawing headache. “A” then gives me her address and we set a time for me to go to their home.

By the time we hang up the phone, I am so uncomfortable. My back and head are hurting so bad that I can’t focus and I really needed to get to work. Something about this case was off. So when I got to work, I did something I never do. I contacted a friend of mine that’s a realtor to get information on the property I was going to investigate. My clients were renting, so they knew nothing, and I needed to know what I was getting myself into. Ever since I talked to “A” on the phone, I did not feel right. Like I said, something was way off and I needed to know how I was going to approach this investigation.

After some research, I found information that would be very helpful with my investigation and for my clients. The home is located in Lake Forest, CA. The original owners bought the home brand new in 1984. They lived there for 21 years, and sold it in 2005. Then that owner sold it to the current owner in 2013, who was then renting it to my clients. The original owner’s names were, “Dickie and Ellie.”

So I looked up “Dickie & Ellie”. After they sold there home in Lake Forest, they moved to Ladera Ranch. They needed to downsize because in the late 1990’s, Dickie was diagnosed with dementia. He was then forced into retirement in 2003 due to how debilitating his illness had become. Ellie, his wife of 46 years, took care of him until his death on, December 25, 2011, in the early morning hours. (3:14 am???) Dickie & Ellie have a large family: 4 sons and 10 grandchildren.

Well, the dementia explains why my head was so muffled and I was having pain in back of my eyes. I really needed to get this investigation over with, I felt like crap (and still did not know why my lower back was in so much pain). So the day of the investigation, I had to really work to clear my head. I got up and walked a couple of miles, then came home and did some gardening, then I meditated.

On my way to my client’s home, I was already getting messages and emotions from Dickie. I already knew that it was his spirit in the home. His messages were muffled then he would be lucent. I was picking up on a lot before I even got there. And the cramping in my lower back was getting worse.

As I drove up to the house, Dickie was showing me a scene from years ago. His sons were young boys playing out front of the house and riding their bikes. Then I heard him say, “Family.” When I got out of the car and started walking up the driveway, Dickie showed me a scene from when the boys were older and they would come with their families to celebrate Christmas. I had to stop and focus so I could get inside and meet my clients.

When I entered the home, my senses were going haywire. I could sense Dickie’s energy change. I could sense that there was something not right with “A’s” fiancé “J”. I knew I was going to have to be tough for this investigation. There was too much chaotic energy swirling everywhere. I don’t know how anyone could function in that home.

Check back for Part 2 … The Investigation and Revelation …







The Boy

This investigation took place in Boulder, Colorado. I was asked to investigate a condo near the CU campus that five students were living in. The college kids that were living there were hearing noises and they felt like someone was always watching them. One of the young men living there was my friend’s son. He told me all about all the activity and they needed help figuring out what it was and how to get rid of it.

The condo was an upside-down unit. That means that you walk in on the main floor living area with bedrooms, then the downstairs had more bedrooms. I interviewed a couple of the roommates to see what they were experiencing and most of the activity seemed to be on the bottom floor. The one female roommate that was downstairs told me she was sensitive and she sensed that someone was watching her. She could hear and feel the spirit. So, I asked her to join me during my investigation, starting in her room.

Her room definitely felt different than the rest of the house. It was heavy and there was an uneasy feeling, like a swirling of energy. She wanted to use the EMF detector, so I asked questions out loud to see if we could get a response. Right away I was getting the static electricity feeling. I could feel the spirit standing in the corner. It was a young man. He was anxious and not sure if he wanted to talk to me. I told him he was safe, but that he was scaring people and we were there to help him. He apologized for scaring everyone, he just wanted them to know he was there.

He liked it there. He liked being around the female in the room we were in. I asked him how he died. He told me that he was a student at CU and he was killed while riding his bike. He lived close to their condo when he was alive and he came there hoping that the “sensitive girl” would let him hang out. He knew she could sense him and he just wanted to hang out with the college students. Then I asked if he needed me to help him cross over. This is when he got really anxious. He was moving all over the room. It became hard to breathe and I started to feel anxious, so I had to get out of there.

As I was walking out the door, I could feel the girl that was with me right behind me, so I turned around to make sure she was ok — this is probably the most frightening thing that has happened to me and I will NEVER forget it. When I turned around, it was the young man, as clear as day. He looked like a boy, so young. He had a black hooded sweat shirt on, the hood was on his head, his shaggy dark hair hung around his face. He had his hands in his pockets of his sweatshirt, jeans on, and black & white All-Star sneakers. I jumped back and my heart about exploded. He looked at me and gave me this cute little smirk then walked across the room through the wall. I looked at the girl and asked if she had seen him too. She did not see him, but she could feel his energy leave the room. I just wanted to cry. He looked like a boy, so young, it was just so sad that he was taken too soon in his life.

Afterwards, I had a meeting with the roommates and told them they had nothing to worry about, that the spirit was just a young man who loved being around them. If they were still scared, they could do a cleansing to send him away. They decided to cleanse the upstairs and the girl on the bottom floor was going to let him stay down there, now that she knew he wasn’t a bad spirit or going to hurt her.

This investigation really shook me. A young life taken too soon. Someone’s son. I also have two sons (now men) of my own, and when I did this investigation, they were around the same age as the young man. And after seeing his face up close, and how young he looked, I will always have a little ache in my heart for “The Boy”.


Definition: The Electromagnetic Theory of the Paranormal is that a ghost/spirit gives off an electromagnetic field which can be detected by an Electromagnetic Field Meter (EMF). Skeptics think that this theory is false. I can tell you from my personal experience that the theory is true. When I started doing investigations, the EMF detector was my number one device in communicating with ghosts/spirits. Then I started to realize that I could hear a spirits reaction to questions before the EMF detector registered a reaction. Depending on the situation, I will use my EMF detector to get an initial reading of an area before I do a reading. Sometimes there are high electro magnetic fields in an area and that can make people feel sick or uncomfortable, it can also make a person feel anxious or paranoid. I like to rule that out before I start, so I know that I am dealing with a spirit or spirits.

You can purchase your own EMF detector online for cheap. It’s a fun way to try out your investigative curiosity of the paranormal. And who knows, maybe you are more sensitive than you think.