The number one question people always ask is, “Is it scary hearing and seeing a spirit?” My answer is No, not anymore. Of course at first, I was scared; I actually thought I was going crazy. It’s not fun waking up in the middle of the night because you hear someone next to your bed, and when you open your eyes there’s a dark figure standing over you. Or, when you’re at a restaurant having a nice dinner with friends and a spirit decides they have a message for their loved one sitting at the table next to you.
I had a situation one time where I walked into the bar at a restaurant and I saw this lovely older woman sitting at the end of the bar with a handsome older gentleman standing next to her. I thought, wow, look at the way he looks at her; you can really see how much he loves her. So I sat down, ordered a drink, and turned to the lovely woman and noticed she was now by herself. I asked her if she, and who I assumed was her husband, were having a nice evening. She just froze and looked at me like I was crazy. Then, she smiled and said, “I had a feeling he was here with me.” My stomach just fell, I got light headed when I realized my mistake. She then explained that her husband had died the year before and thanked me for saying something and not ignoring it. I made sure she knew how much he loves her and he is always with her. She cried, I cried, and she thanked me for the most special gift she could ever get. She said really needed to hear from him at that time.
Even though I get such a seriously uplifting and amazing feeling when I give people messages from their loved ones, I still had to learn to make boundaries. I had to learn how to block myself off in public. Not all people are receptive to hearing that their loved one is with them and have a message for them. I also had to learn to block off my home so that my family wouldn’t be affected. I will post all about creating boundaries and blocking in another post. Until then …
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