Hello everyone! What an interesting year it has been. I don’t have to tell any of you how life and time just kept going as we watched from inside of our homes. In a snap, our world changed. I am sure most of you are like me….. a person always on the go. Working, going out with friends, spending time with family, and just having the freedom to go where you want. I learned that when you can’t do those things or see your friends, your family is your world. We were blessed to have our grandson born at the beginning of 2020, and to be able to share our lock down with him. I could go on and on about lessons I have learned during this time. BUT, that is a whole different blog!! I want to share what I learned in regards to being a medium.
I think I really figured out what kind of medium I want to be, when I did the live investigation at March Air Force Base. That was such an amazing experience and very eye opening for me. I would love to do more live investigations, and I will do more. What made that investigation so special was that my husband came with me. He had never seen me in action….doing my thing. I know it was eye opening for him, and changed his perspective about my abilities. That is the best validation. I know everyone around me knows I can talk to the dead, but I don’t think they truly understand how clairvoyant I am. I see and hear spirits like they are alive standing next to me. I don’t need gadgets or things that light up to know who I am talking too and what they are saying to me. I do however understand that those gadgets are needed so that other people can have an experience that don’t have my gift. That brings me to, telling the truth.
I would never lie or make something up just so a client can have closure. That’s against what I call the Medium Code. But, the problem is, people that don’t know me aren’t going to trust what I say without proof. That is why I make it clear that I go to an investigation or reading without knowing any details. Usually I start picking up symbols or feelings, and sometimes have dreams about the reading or investigation that I have scheduled next. I write down everything and take it with me not knowing if the information will make sense. I am always amazed when what I am picking up at a location does coincide with the notes I brought with me.
This brings me to my whole mission….Going after the truth. The thrill of discovery during an investigation and the thrill of the adventure it takes you on. That’s what I want people to see or know when they have me come and investigate. I want to get to the bottom of what’s going on and I want to help my clients with a solution that works for them. It is their space, not mine. I help my clients from the beginning to the end. I am not going to show up and stir spirits up and leave.
I want my clients and everyone else to understand that you don’t have to be afraid of ghosts. I want to show the thrill of learning what else is out there. Now, I know that there are times when you should be serious and maybe your are dealing with something not nice, but the majority of the time it should be pure fun and the thrill of discovery. Isn’t it just amazing that you are in an environment that someone who has passed on, likes to come hang out at??? Again, it’s my clients choice if they would like to coexist with these spirits or not. I am just the vessel that comes in and helps them figure it out and then come up with a solution.
So, my new mission, besides helping people and spirits, is…MAKE IT AN ADVENTURE!!! I LOVE my gift!!! I LOVE sharing my gift!!! Don’t get me wrong…its not all happy readings and nice ghosts, but now I will go into those situations with a different approach. My next blog is about coming across my first bad spirit, or some might say demon. I don’t use that word lightly….Makes me make a yucky face as I am typing that word. I have always been on the fence about demons. I was told by a medium, that the white light that surrounds me attracts spirits because it is so pure and bright, and it repels evil. BUT, I should still know how to deal with evil, because it can find its way in. I am not a stupid medium…I will call for back up if evil presents itself!!!! I will let my next blog tell the story.
I hope you all keep following and enjoying my posts. I am excited for the investigations to come and I can’t wait to share them with you. Please feel free to ask questions or leave comments. I would love to hear from you. Take care!!